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came across an anonymously's blogg, and i happened to read this. . .
" i didnt steal your friends. in case you're dumb, friends cannot be stolen if they are true to you and vice versa. if you really did nothing wrong, why are you so scared to lose them. if you dont bother, why do you care if you lost them? "
i find this sentence so TRUE and REAL.
sab told me,
" once you r afraid of losing a fren, it shows tat u cherish tis fren n won't want want to lose her or him..its shows how much u appreciate frenship..if ur fren also cherish u,he or she would nt want to break tat frenship up cox they can sense the bond between ur..and how much u cherish them.. "
hmmm, i can sense the bond between my friends, EVERYONE. and i also sense their love, care and concern for me. [hopefully not detected wrongly nahs!]
THANKS with LOVEs, peers.
reading these make me realised something important. . .
how u actually treat ur friend, is how u would like ur friend to actually treat u. for instance, being nice to u, and if u take it for granted, the consequence can be serious or minor, simply depending on the opposite party. depend whether he/she would want to action back. however, there's always an outcome, is that, they will gradually lose their friend, and it actually show how fragile a friendship he/she and u are having. sometime it may not think u are not the one at fault or mayb u felt that u are the victim, but have u ever do ur reflection and repent? I DID. and i noe, i never agree that im right always. so dun expect ur friend to just give in to u, also, give out to ur friend.
i cherish my every friends and everyone ard. i dun wish to regret. for some, i tried cherishing, yet still turn out to have problems, im sick and also tired of these kind of matters. so it's not that i dun wish to solve it, it's jus that, sometime thing can become a childish's kids act.
HOWEVER, if i even let u down, or let u felt that im not worthy to be ur friend. im open for discussion yea! human do needs to improve. and im a human. a human who is not perfect and full of fault that nids ur "enlightment".
i dun wish to wait till one day, everything is gone and leaving only bad memories with each other yea. =)
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